Being Proactive does not take much!!!

I have seen many people who are just lazy, even I act like a lazy sometimes. The reason behind that is just that they cannot help it. Here are some approaches which may help you being proactive.

1. Don't try to be perfectionist and don't leave everything just because you cannot be perfect in that.

2. You have to take risk always. Don't leave anything just because you may do mistake. Go for it.

3. Increase your expectations. Do not stick to what your are today.

4. Whatever you want to do, do it now.

There can be many other approaches for being proactive, but these four are really very helpful. Try it!

10 things to keep you happy at work

There are many people who just want to work for themselves. They are their own boss. On the contrary, we have a majority of people who work for others. Most of them are not happy at their work place. It is said that happiness lies inside you, and these people really don't know in which part. So here are 10 reason which these people can try to keep themselves happy at their workplace.

1. If you have two options of being happy and sad, please choose to be happy.

2. Try to do something which you love to do at your workplace, but it should be office related.

3. Go for your professional and personality development.

4. Try to know what is going on in your organization as you are part of that family.

5. Always ask for feedback of your work. If you are not well, do well and motivate yourself.

6. Avoid negative people and negative activities.

7. Commit when you can really do. Do not make false promises as it will return to you someday.

8. Practice professional courage like conflict resolutions as it will help you in long run.

9. The persons working with are your family members, so make friends.

10. If you think none of this working, go to a job search engine and look for a new job. I guess that will make you happy.


I hope at least one of this will keep you happy. I am waiting for other things from you which can keep you happy at work.

Where is the answer?

There are many situations where we end up asking suggestions from others, who just don't know it. In life, there are many stages where you feel confused. At that point of time, you just try to get an answer. But where is the answer?

If you think that others can answer your question, then I think you are not right. Every person has his/her own life, and have nothing to do with you when it comes to life. They can roam with you, talk to you, love you, hug you; but they will never answer your life.

The answer to the maximum confusions lies inside us. If you will keep on asking and shouting for help, you will not be able to hear your inner voice. So better keep quiet and listen to the inner voice so that you can live your life properly.

Don't let your inner voice sleep.

Problems may define you!

We are the ones who are there to face the problems and solve them, don't let your problems tackle you. This is what most of us do. Some people are so bound to their problems that they don't know what to do without them, and if one lot of problems disappears, they get new ones to replace them. The biggest lose here is this that problems start defining us.

We are nothing without those problems in that case. Don't let you problems decide your individuality. If your identity is linked to your problems then you will never be able to overcome them.

Tie your Stress

Most of us are having some or the other kind or stress. Some of us have stress from studies, from personal life, unhealthy food, etc. Here are five tips to manage your stress-

1. Go on a holiday and throw your stress somewhere there, so that no one can bring it back.

2. Exercise daily and use your stress in lifting weights. If you have anger, show it to the body by exercise, but don't do it too much. Have your senses with you.

3. Hobbies and interests are very far from us these days. Bring them back, and involve yourself in that so that you can forget about your stress.

4. Do everything with your friends and family. Being alone can make you feel more stressed.

5. Proper food will help you and your body to balance the unbalanced things. Eat well but not too much.

There can be many other things which we can do to manage our stress. I am waiting for your comments to know some other tips.

Are you ADDICTED?

Addiction can be our biggest enemy, when handled properly. Addiction can be defined as anything without which you cannot even think of living. Addictions are not always for negative things. You can be addicted to negative things like heroin, alcohol, gambling, cigarettes or food; or you can be addicted to things like your work, hard work, etc.

Living with your addiction is not really living at all. The one and only thing that matters in your life is your need to fulfill your addiction. It does not matter what you are addicted to. Just keep in mind that it is an addiction and you need to tackle the problem now.

There are only two options open to you when you are addicted. You can carry on exactly the same as you are doing and end up being poor, lonely, unhappy, ashamed or even dead, (depending on the type of addiction you have). Or You can admit you need help, and so many people will be there to help you.

One second once

How often do we hear "take it slow," "take it easy," "one step at a time," "one day at a time" "don't be so hard on yourself" etc... Do we follow the advice? Probably not as often as we should.

Each second of the day we are faced with small and seemingly insignificant decisions; constant tests of do or don't, right or wrong. Some of these tests might be so minor we don't even think about them. Perhaps its a q-tip on the floor or a pillow out of place on the bed. Do we take the literal one second to pick up the q-tip or adjust the pillow? Or do we leave the "mess on the floor" so to speak, and allow it to accumulate.

Think of how many areas of our life that these one second challenges are adding up! You probably have piles of "stuff" all around you and fail to even notice it. A great philosophy I recently adopted is "if I think it, I must do it." If I think about taking the trash out, it probably needs to be done. So I do it NOW! By creating this discipline in my life, more gets done and with minimal effort.

I walk alone

We all have friends. But there are many people who feel isoloted even after having hundreds of friends. There can be mistake of anyone behind this and lets not get into it. Lets talk about their loneliness. If you are dealing with loneliness, you can take some steps to change the way you feel. Remember, only you have the power to overcome this feeling.

The first thing that you need to do is accept that you are feeling lonely. Do not try to run away from your feelings. Instead face and learn to express that feeling. You can cry to vent out your loneliness, or you can write. Usually when you accept and express what you are feeling, you will be able to figure out what is causing it.

Happiness to me!

What is happiness to you?

Happiness is not something which is universal. What keeping me happy may not keep you happy. There are many people who keep on saying that happiness and themselves have no connection, and happiness is always away from them. On the same side, we have people who are always happy.

What is the reason? I feel that happiness is always there in each and everything we do. It is when you search and live in the searched thing. It does not matter what you are doing, what really matters is the way you are doing it. Keep yourself involved in the things and think that it will bring happiness to you.

Work with full enjoyment, and you will get your happiness.

Have a heart, or Have the heart

Life has a different meaning to differnt people. What I feel about life is this that you always have two options.

Either have a heart or have the heart.

By having a heart I mean to say that there are people who always care about other people. They just can't resist themsleves helping others. It doe not matter where they are, what matters a lot is other should be in good. These people are always loving, helping and giving.

On the other side, we have having the heart people. These are the people who have the heart to do what they want to do. There can be some cases where they are like having a heart types, but they do think about themselves with thinking for others. These people are more towards good for maximum, but first good for them.

I am not in favour of any of these types. It depends on people to people that what type they are or want to be. You decide what you want to be.

30 second Speech by Bryan Dyson (CEO of Coca Cola)

Have a look at the power of effective speech-

"Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them - Work, Family, Health, Friends and Spirit and you're keeping all of these in the Air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four Balls - Family, Health, Friends and Spirit - are made of glass . If you drop one of these; they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for it.”

Workaholic

Work! Work! Work!

There are many people who just hate doing anything
And there are many who just hate doing nothing.

People are so busy in working day and night that they don't know what is going on. I am not talking about the people around these workaholics but I am talking about the workaholics themselves. These people do their work without caring for their own health. Some do the work just to earn money, some do for the passion they have towards their work.

According to a recent survey, 93% of the techies feel that their health is affected by the work they are doing. They just sit at a place and keep on doing their work. People should take out some time for themselves so that they can exercise a bit for their healthy life.

Happy Life Workaholics!

Angry Decision

We all make decisions in our day to day life. Some are right, some are wrong, some are fruitful, some takes a lot. Generally, when we make any decision we consider many factors which can affect our decision. There are some cases when we have no control on the things which we do. One of these types of situations is Anger.

Many a times we make decision when we are angry. This anger has a great impact on our decision making ability. Most of the decision in anger are very harmful. It is better to decide with a cool mind to decide the right thing.

Angry decisions will make you more angry.

I quit FRENCH

I was learning French, but few days back I just stepped back because I was not satisfied with the way I was learning it. I started it with great enthusiasm but later everything vanished. I cannot blame anyone for this.

It happens to many of us that we start something with great enthusiasm and later we just quit. In these situations, there is one great thing to do, i.e. ask yourself the reason for your start. Just ask why you started the thing which you are quitting now. There are some cases where you just cannot resist yourself quitting as you are sure of what you are doing. But there are cases when we just get carried away by others and just quit.

Just ask yourself why you have started, and you will get to know whether quitting is important for you or not.

Power of Appreciation

We all know the importance of appreciating a person. An appreciation can get many things out of a person, or the absence of it may take many things out of him. Always try to appreciate and thank people around you. This will not cost you anything. The person will feel like a worth and his work will be more fruitful than the previous one.

Do all this without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.

Try it!!!

Corupt India

India is still perceived to be one of the most corrupt countries by Transparency International in its annual corruption perceptions. The country ranks 84th in the list of 'World's most corrupt nations' due to high public-sector corruption.

The bottom five nations were Somalia, Afghanistan, Myanmar, Sudan and Iraq, while the cleanest countries with ranking close to perfect 10 were New Zealand, Denmark and Singapore.

So which are the developed countries, which are developing countries and which are under developed? Everybody can give a speech, but only few can listen properly. The report blames everything to Indian PSUs, but I think that Private companies are not absent here. The only thing is they are not caught. These reports can do a little, but together we all can do a lot.

Think about it!!!

Problems help us!!!

Many of us believe that we learn after facing different problems. In most common terms we call it "LEARN BY EXPERIENCE". I agree with this that there are some situations which really teach us some or the other thing.

I strongly believe in something else. The problems and situations we face not actually teach us something. These problems make us find a solution for the same. We use ourself going deeper inside, and just come up with the solution. Here the problem has not taught us how to solve a problem, but the problem has helped us in knowing ourself. It makes us know our hidden talents.

So, the next time you decide to know your true self, put yourself in a problem.

Fear or Guts?

Fear and guts are not given by anyone. These are the things which we have to take. One who take it as his choice can have it, others cannot if they don't want to. The one who prefers guts over fear will surely have guts.

You decide your own choice

Controllable Anger

" If anger is your most frequently used outlet, try unplugging it for a while." (Brian G. Jett)

It is very true because many a times we lose something just because of our Anger factor. Anger, often taken as one of the enemies of human, is created by us. By this, I mean to say that it is only we who create anger, as it is not inborn. Controlling the anger totally depends on an individual. If not controlled at the right time, this can become very intense and can even break you.

Control your anger before it start controlling you.

Gender Gap

There was a time when the gap between the genders was very big. Then came the time when everybody said that they were putting there the best of their efforts to remove this gap. Most of them got little success.

Who says that there is no Gender Gap in India. According to a recent survey done by World Economic Forum (WEF), there is a big corporate gender gap in the employment of woman in th entry level to the top management of the companies. This survey was based on the 60 of the top best 100 employers of India. Here are some of the results.

* Women employees held only 10 percent of the senior management positions in two-thirds of the surveyed companies.

* None of the companies had women chief executive officers (CEOs) and almost 40 percent of the respondents had only 10 percent women work force.

* The average annual income of a woman is $1,185, which is less than one-third of a man's $3,698, employed in Indian companies.


Do you think we are not having any Gender Gap in our country? Remember, if you cannot respect the work done by others, stop the operations of your company. The most preferable way to remove this type of gap will be to educate the men about the women empowerment.

Remember, a finished road is much better for a vehicle.

Monday leave

According to the recent study by the Bangalore-India consultancy firm Mercer, most of the leaves are being taken on mondays. Monday is the most common day for all the employees as 35% of the sample size of 11,000 employees take leave on mondays. They say that the reason for their leave was musculo-skeletal problems.

Cool enough. What I think about the reason behind monday leaves is lack of enjoyment. Many of the employees have their own families. Having holidays on weekends and after enjoying to the core of tiredness, it becomes very hard for the employees to start their day immediately with mondays. They take a monday leave and join back the company on tuesdays. This make them feel relaxed and be in a position to work with fresh minds.

What do you say?

Never compromise

We all have dreams, and we always try our best to achieve them. We never care for anyone while trying to achieve the goal, but one of the greatest mistakes which we often commit is of ignoring our near and dear ones.

Our near and dear ones ( not fake ones) always support us in whatever we do. Always remember, they are the only ones who are really yours. You can dream and achieve that by living life in the way you want, but your personal relations are the one which shapes your life.

Never sacrifice your personal relations because of your dreams, learn to adjust.

Great Vision

There are many people who are not able to know there real self. These people always under estimate themselves and never try something new. They don't have any vision and this makes them sit at a same place throughout their life. On the contrary there are some people who have a strong vision and they start perceiving themselves according to their great vision.

Having a great vision helps us know ourselves better and deeper. This highest vision will make you do wonders and believe me that the results will surprise you.


Make a great vision and see how amazing you are.

Fear of nothing

We all are afraid of some or the other thing. Some of us are afraid of Lizards, some are of failure, some are of height, and some are of death. Fear is nothing but the negative feeling about something which just home inside us. It is not genetic, but it highly transmitted if no proper care is taken. Regular negative comments on something will make it a reality (fear) for us.

We are afraid of something because our mind is not completely open to that thing. We just see what we want to see. Just think for a while why a fear for us is not a fear for others. All we require is the strong will to overcome it. There are many people who have seriously done it.

Fear is just like the uninvited insects which come to our home. If you really want to drag them out, you need to find them and throw them out of your door.

Yesterday's Objection, Today's Praise

We live in a society and always think that we should make them feel happy. If they are complaining something it means we are wrong. The right step for us can be the wrong one for them. They always want to control us.

There are two types of people. One, who always care for other's opinions, views, and responses. Second, who really don't care and do all that they want to do. First type of people always remain where they are now, whereas second type of people go ahead without caring for anyone to achieve their goals. At the end of the day, those who were blaming the second one follow him and his ideologies.

You decide what you want to be.

From spark to fire

I am not perfect. I mean to say that I am not able to do things right in the first attempt. I am 100% sure that no one else can. I have seen many people who have really faced a lot of problems because of others. Those type of people always abuse the damager ( the person who has ruined his/her life). They feel that the damager has completely ruined his/her life and they have nothing left to live happily in the future.

I am totally against the view of those people. I feel that the damagers are the one who ruin a part of your life and later give you reason to go ahead. I am not saying that they are innocent. They spark up your life so that in future if you face any such situation you can create fire. Instead of taking it as the end of your life, you should take it as a learning so that you may not repeat same kind of mistakes in the future. Learn to live with true meaning and purpose now.

Damagers will damage once or to maximum twice,
then it is you who should learn to fight.

Out of track!!!

Have you ever asked a hardcore science question to an art student? If no, then it makes sense. In life, we do these kind of things very often and end up regretting because of reasons like wrong choice, time wastage, etc.

When you are on your track,
Never ask anyone who is out of track

A change by one

"They say that one person can never change anything,
I say that one can change everything"

We always blame the system and always say that we need some people to change the system. The story always end before it starts because we always look for the people who can come forward. We are ready to go but we need someone to be with us. This wait for others always result into NO SINGLE STEP.

I feel that if one really have strong determination to change anything we can do it no matter how many people support us. It is always like power of multiplication rule where one person can convince another one, and the chain goes on. Just think for a while about 10 individuals taking initiative at different places. The chain will be totally different and will grow rapidly because one or the other day someone has to do it, so why can't we now?

EACH ONE TAKE ONE.

Never ever give up!!!

We all have some or the other goals and we always try to achieve those goals. There are many people who always try to put others down before they actually raise themselves. This brings an extra difficulty to those who are working in their direction. Because of those people, sometimes we face a lot of problems and feel that we are lagging behind.

Sometimes these problems or lagging behind is taken as if it is the end of the story and we stop making further efforts. But if we will look at the reality, it says that lagging behind has nothing to do with your goal attainment. What matters a lot is the ability to keep your spirit high and never get effected by anyone.

We all know that people will try to knock us out, and believe me this is a hard fact. One who is your dear now may be the one who can shoot you. We should always some have back up. These back ups will help us stand tall even when the wind is at its maximum speed.

THINK ABOUT IT, AND NEVER GIVE UP!!!

The real day : TODAY

"TODAY is the only truth"

Many of us give more importance to our past and future actions than the present one. This is one of the common mistake we always make. It is a truth that our present is the only way by which we can achieve all that we want to achieve. Without wasting time to think about the past and day dream about the future, we all should live our present and should act for TODAY.

Learn to smile

I have seen many people (including me) who just get upset whenever they face any difficulty in anything. Life is all about stuggle and it is not written in our destiny that our bad face will help us get rid of those difficulties.

We always make bad faces to show others that we are having some problem, and that is completely ruining us. This ultimately creates many other problems including bitter relations wth others. I have realized this, and have started working on the same. Making bad faces will not gonna make any improvement in our life, but instead of that it may create some extra problems.

We will loose nothing if we will smile at every problem. I know this is not at all easy but we can start by smiling at minor problems.

TRY AND LEARN..

HAPPY DEEPAWALI

DEEPAWALI is an Indian festival, which is celebrated every year with great joy and excitement. Everyone wears new clothes, eat sweets, burn crackers, and have great fun on this auspicious day.

There are approximately 13% Indians who are not even able to enjoy this festival. All they can do is to wtch others celebrating, or stay quite at alone place. This post is deicated to those heroes, who really are great. They have nothing still they live every minute of their life with no complaints to anyone.

HAPPY DEEPAWALI to all of you, and especially those heroes.

Knock before you enter

What did you do last time when you have been to someone's home? Rang the bell, or Knocked the door. Right? This is what we do because we really need to take permission before we enter.

Many of us knock at the door and remain outside. Even if nobody is replying to the knock, we just be there. Knocking and entering are entirely different actions. this what happens to our real life. Knocking can be the things which we often do, and knocking is really necessary. It consists of reading books, attending meetings, asking questions.

Entrance can be the the extra things which are very important to succeed in the life. Entrance requires much bolder action. It requires one to enter into himself, to uncover hidden motives, to see contradictions, and to realize his actual power for self-change.

Many of us just keep on knocking at the door, but do not dare to enter. This keeps us always at the same place where we are today.

KNOCK AND ENTER, DON'T STEP BACK OR KEEP ON KNOCKING...
AND NEVER EVER FORGET TO KNOCK BEFORE YOU ENTER.

Less important

I have not posted anything from the past 3 days. As far as I can remember, it happened after approximately one month. I am not here to present an excuse for not posting anything.

I was just thinking today to find the reason behind this. My schedule in these days was bit busy. I had many work to do. What I have done here is this that I got involved in that work giving less important to my blog. I was not able to find out the exact reason. this happens when we have some work which we take more important than our current work.

It is not so that my blog is unimportant for me, but the work which I had seemed more important. I understood this, and now will try to take care of this throughout my life, and suggest you to do the same.

Food everywhere, but nothing to eat!!!

Do we know the value of food? I think, "NO". We all have more than sufficient to eat. But there are many people, who have nothing to eat; forget about eating they just don't get any food to see. We all know are very much interested in knowing the facts and figures on Poverty, but very few are really interested in taking these numbers down.

Every country is into making records, records of being largest producers of grains and other crops. According to foodnavigator.com , the total production for Wheat in the year 2008-08 is 683 million tons. Out of this, very few quantity reaches the poor.

The total number of poor in 2008-08 is 380 million. These poor people have less to eat. I really cannot understand that if every country is producing enough to take care of its residents, then why are people not getting that produced food? I know that I am lacking more facts and figures to say all this, but friends just give it a thought.

IMS Approach

IMS = Its My Style

It is very common that a person asks another person to do a work. It does not matter how important that work is. It can be good for us, or cannot be. Lets call these works as ASSIGNMENT.

We all have been given lots of assignments to do, and believe me we all are capable enough to do those assignments. We do whatever we are asked to do. Yes, we only do whatever we are asked to do. This is very common in organizations, where the employees are given some or the other work very often. They do what they have to do. They don't have any freedom.

We have another term called COMMITMENT. A committed employee always do more than what he is asked to do. The employees are more hungry for freedom and recognition. If the employee is being given assignments with a power to do what he want, then definitely the result will be much much better.

"JUST ASK A PERSON TO DO SOMETHING, NEXT TIME HE WON't WORK FOR YOU"

Unchanged Goals

It is a very hard fact that almost 60% of us are not having any goal in our life yet. It doesn't mean that those who are not having any goal are fools and have no right to live happily. Another important fact is this that almost half of those who have goals, change their goals very frequently as if they are changing clothes.

Some of the reasons for frequently changing our goals are-

1. Some other person is having better goal.

2. Realizing that their goals are not realistic.

3. Over-estimating self (of the ability).

4. Under-estimating the goal.

5. External pressure to change it.

6. Circumstances

There can be many other reasons for this. Goals are highly influenced by the incidents. There are some incidents in our life which change our life, and help us know our true self. These incidents become milestones in our life, and we start working in that direction. These incidents are so intense that they force us to make realistic and achievable goals. These Goals are considered real goals with no further frequent change.

I forgot everything

"I always forget whatever I learn", this is a problem with many of us. We always think that we have got some problem with our memory. We think that we are not able to use our brain to the fullest. but once we read something, our capacity to understand things related to that increases. This is because of our brain.

Brain, one of the finest creation of GOD, is the head of our body. Brain is having the properties of a non-elastic thing. Non-elastic means the things which don't return to their original state. We learn, and as a result of that our brain expands.

After a period, we feel that we have lost whatever we have learnt. But this is not true, the real fact is this that we always have that information in our mind, but the regular updates of information keep the old information in some corner of our brain, and when we try to learn something related to that old information, we realize that that we know a lot about it.

"NEVER THINK THAT YOU HAVE LOST EVERYTHING, YOU ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING NEW"

Flowing accordingly

We all know the importance of INFORMATION, right? Information, often linked to communication, should always be perfect, perfect in respect of its flow between the people involved. It has different importance for different people.

The same information is needed to be communicated differently in different situations. The information, which when written 100% in the exam paper, can fetch "A" grade for us. But when we communicate the same 100% information to the employees, it shows reverse results. For better results, we should be able to communicate the 10% information in such a way so that they may understand the 100%.

We all should be able to analyse the situation before actually communicating any information, so that the results are more than our expectations.

FASTER the BETTER

I always take life as Relay race. It is not because of the reason that we have our successor to take ahead whatever we leave for them. I am talking about the achievement of our goals.

All of us have different capabilities, and we all perform using those. Some of us achieve goals earlier than the others. It is not because that they are more capable than others. As I wrote earlier, we all have different capabilities, and the speed of goal achievement is a result of that.

It is just like Relay race. We all start from a common point. Some of us reach the first person faster, whereas others reach comparatively slower. This is not final. There are so many things after that. So, it does not matter who achieves the goal faster, but the thing matters the most is who reach the final stage.

I have no IDEA

An idea can change your life, but where is that idea? We all know the importance of an idea, but we don't get any. An idea requires a lot of hard work, concentration and dedication. And that too in the right direction. Idea can be of anything, it does matter what kind you generate.

Many a times we feel that the idea we have in mind, is nothing but a bullshit, and will not gonna make change in my life or others. In reality, there were many ideas which were being rejected by a person but accepted by others as a great ideas.

Ideas are just like Rabbit. It is very hard to get first two, and then handle them. But once you get an idea of the idea, it keeps on coming.

"TAKE CARE OF YOUR IDEAS, DON'T LET ANYONE STEAL" IT

Wish I could

There were many things which we all wanted to do at some point of time, but we were not able to do that. It is almost impossible that a person has done each and everything which he wanted to do. Sometimes we ignore the things which we want to do, just because of other's perception and thinkings about that work.

At the end of the day, we just end-up having a great amount of dissatisfaction. Today morning, I had a talk with an old lady. She told me that there were many things she had not done just because she was afraid of other's reaction on it. By having tears in her eyes, she end-up saying that -"Wish I would have done that".

This really happens in everyones life. We just ignore the things, and later regret not doing those things. So, never leave anything thinking of others.

Quick decision

It is very easy to reach the conclusion, and make hasty decisions. Most of us really do that, not in personal life but also in connected life. Without reading or listening to anything properly, we just want to reach the conclusion because -

1. We want to save our time, or

2. We think that we know everything which is being communicated

Whenever we reach the conclusions with no proper information, we just invite misunderstandings, misconceptions, worst violence, loss of identity, etc. Without knowing the real fact, we are very much liable to commit mistakes. We think we know everything, we are always right, but the reality is something else. Even after knowing the reality, we tend to repeat the same until we suffer.

We should take any decision after looking at the points laid on the table. By not doing this, we just end up being a victim of Pride and Prejudice.

LIFE is a GPS

Today, after getting bored of the Industrial Relations studies I just read an article on GPS (Global Positioning System) in cars.

A recent model car with a GPS system provides of with the turn by turn instructions. When you remain on course it simply tells you how many miles until your next turn and whether it will be a right or a left. If you are off course, however, it will either tell you to recalculate or make a legal U turn ahead.

Life is just like a GPS. We dream, and start working in the direction which we feel, is right. We just keep going on, and we do try to take shortcuts or using unfair means in reaching the dream. But, Life has no end there. It will show you such circumstances where it will make you realize of those wrong means, and will ask you to recalculate (re-travel). This really happens, and I believe this.

"JUST FOLLOW THE CORRECT INSTRUCTIONS, OR BE READY TO RECALCULATE."

I do it by my WAY

Most of the decisions we take, are actually not ours. Many of us are doing things which our family, friends, neighbors, or anyone close to us want us to do. Many of us are doing MBA just because our parents want us to do, we are going abroad instead of being in India because our counterpart wants to be there.

We all have only one life, and that too very short. Every time we fulfill the wish of others by sacrificing ours, we add extra dissatisfaction inside us. This dissatisfaction is not visible initially, but at later point of time we find ourself full of irritation, anger, and are completely lost.

"Do what you want to do, don't follow others' wish anymore,
If still you will do that, you will be no more..."

You say..I'll do...

Our life has become so much lazy that whatever we see, we believe that. Say for example that I have to go to a place (unknown to me, I don't know the way) alone. I have been told by friend about the place and have been given a vague idea. I saw some passer-byes, and asked about that place. They told me the address, and without even confirming from anyone else I moved further, and later came to know that I am lost.

Cool enough...but true. This is what we all are doing. I am working on this...Do you??

Learn to love..

Whenever you do anything wrong, do not ever think of going back and trying fixing things because you cannot fix your past. Always think of the present and future, and if you really want to live your tomorrow in a perfect way, just apologize for your mistakes. Always think about the "WHY" of mistakes not "HOW","WHO" and "WHEN".

Try to love people for who they are, not what they are.

Some reasons to copy...

There can never be a scarcity of Copy-cats. No matter where we go, whether it be school, college, office, or anything, we always have these type of people. Here I have some of the reasons why they copy paste-

1. They have no other thing to do, they just love it.

2. They are too lazy.

3. They are being forced to do so.

4. It saves their time, as they have so many important things to do.

5. They don't trust their work.

6. Over trust others.

7. Easily available.

8. They are just following the trend.

9. Don't know the reason.

10. Combination of above reasons.

These are some of the possible reasons which I can come up with. I am looking for other reasons. Waiting for your responses..

Be a self-learner

With every breathe we take, we get an opportunity to learn something whether it be our personal life, office life, social life, or anything else. Learning, according to me, has no relation to the place. It doesn't matter whether you know the place very well or not at all. What really matters is the way we look at it.

Most of us always look for some other person to come to us, and teach us everything so that we can learn. Today, nobody is having time to do good for others (leave the exceptions). How can we except anyone to come to us and then teach us? I am talking about the professionals because they too get something to teach us.

We all should be self-learners, so as to learn more from all the things we see and face.

Pleasing others...

Everyone of us always try to please others so that they can something out of the pleased person. And believe me friends, while pleasing others we forget to please ourself. It is just like feeding others by being hungry.

We all have got one life, and we have very limited time to do all those things we want. We cannot please everyone we meet in this short life, so we should concentrate on pleasing self not others. We should go ahead in life, and if we please someone on the way, it is like a bonus to us.

I am not talking about the profession which really require pleasing others. Hope everyone of us will concentrate on self, not buttering/pleasing others.

SACH KA SAMNA (FACING THE TRUTH)

"SACH KA SAMNA", best stage to confess. It was a DESI version of "MOMENT OF TRUTH". After changing the life of 50 contestants and finishing just 48 episodes it came to an end. Why?

Are people tired of going for the show?, or Are people bored of watching the show, or People have no more confessions to make?, or some ban? I really don't know the reason because the reason it not known to me. I have never expected that the show will reach to an end so soon.

We are from a country where people give far more importance to daily saas-bahu serials, where the main character is showing the different aspect of life. including 4-5 marriages without divorce, rape cases, disgusting fashion, etc. We really like these serials, no matter how cheap they are. Some of these serials have directly effected many of our life in a negatively. Still they are the best.

When the show "SACH KA SAMNA" started, people were excited about it. But slowly it started revealing the truth, and people started publicizing the vulgarity of the how. We never think before doing it, so what it the problem in confessing it. I think that the pressure of keeping all truth in ourself is far more than that of confessing it.

Hope "SACH KA SAMNA" will be back soon to transform our life.

There is nothing in everything...

We all try to do our work to the best of our efficiency. Some of us do it more than targeted, some of us just finish it, and some of us just can't manage doing it. Why? I am not questioning the efficiency. But, there is one thing which matters a lot, i.e. efforts.

Nothing comes just by a single attempt. How can we expect that we will be able to achieve all that we desire by just some efforts? And the people who take shortcut in doing the work reach a situation which we all know. Don't stop putting your efforts. It is all like a ladder.

"We cannot cut a tree by just a single strike of Axe"

Who are you?

Most of us are not good in academics, practically and other things. It doesn't mean that we are useless. I really don't feel that we are like a black spot in this society. I believe that things doesn't end here. What really matters a lot is our ability to deal, deal with the things which are coming to us.

We too can make a lot of difference. We should be open-minded. An open minded individual may have limited knowledge or technical know how but is open to embrace and munch on as much as life has to offer. They tend to learn from life and apply the knowledge to their own life and seem to be very understanding and have a friendly attitude. Very Human!

On the contrary, we have Narrow minded people. People who know a lot of facts tend to brag, be judgmental and oftentimes assume they know everything. They seem to project a feeling of supremacy and the power that goes along with it and cannot stop down to people that are not equally mentally stimulating. They seem almost academic in their thinking.

This is the basic difference between Open and Narrow Minded, but there are people who are really exceptions. A salute to them.

Who are you - Open minded or Narrow minded?

Touch and Go...

All of us start our journey from NOTHING. I am totally in agreement that whatever we achieve is only because of hard work, dedication, zeal, effort, and risk taking ability. There can be many other reasons depending on the individual. It is because of this that some of us reach the top and others just hang around.

I have seen some people who (in my terms) are really having the above mentioned characteristics, and believe me they reached the success in their life. After just touching the success, they came back to the place from where they started their journey. Why?

Well, the answer is simple. These type of people want to reach the top, but can't be there for long because they stop doing all their work once they reach there, feeling that they will be there. But my friends, it is not true. If you have reached the top, you have to keep working so as to be there for long, and reach higher altitudes. it is just like a slope, if you will keep going you will cross it, if not you will come down quickly.

As Gary Anderson rightly said, "Never stop. ESPECIALLY when things are good."