I Dream, I Do, I Fail, and I Quit

This is something which is common between many of us. There are many situations when I realized that I do not have it in me to work for the thing I want to achieve. That is where I always quit. 

Even after knowing that it is ME who is stepping back here, I somehow convinced my inner self that I would try to do something better than this. That "something better" always replaced another "something better", and I got nothing. That is my story, that might be yours too.

I wanted to learn something out of those failures, so I tried to find out the reason behind me quitting things. Lets take it this way. When you want to push a car, you require an initial boost which has to be good enough to make the car move. But once the car starts moving, all you need is the equal force which will be lesser than what you used earlier.

Coming back to the implications on Life, your dreams are something which you want to achieve. The initial boost required to work on your dreams will be proper homework, planning, self-motivation and support. The initial boost decides your success or failure.

Work real hard and serious till you make your first move. And once you will be make your first move, your previous moves will help you motivating yourself for further moves.

10 reasons to lay you off

There can be any reason for you being laid off from your company. Here are the top reasons for you being laid-off from your company.

1. People who are having attitude problems can face a lay off.

2. Their habit of not coming on time to the office on regular basis.

3. People keep their desk very dirty which may also result a lay off.

4. Habits of disturbing or interrupting others by any foolish act or talk.

5. Inability on concentrate on work.

6. Asking too many personal questions, or trying to master others' life.

7. Some people tend to do more or less than expected. This more or less is always unwanted.

8. People take office as a place for free facility service center.

9. Always cursing the company everywhere.

10. The company is a job searching agent and matrimonial agent for them.

These kind of people are not only threat for the colleagues but also for the company they are working with. Better lay them off asap.

Monday leave

According to the recent study by the Bangalore-India consultancy firm Mercer, most of the leaves are being taken on mondays. Monday is the most common day for all the employees as 35% of the sample size of 11,000 employees take leave on mondays. They say that the reason for their leave was musculo-skeletal problems.

Cool enough. What I think about the reason behind monday leaves is lack of enjoyment. Many of the employees have their own families. Having holidays on weekends and after enjoying to the core of tiredness, it becomes very hard for the employees to start their day immediately with mondays. They take a monday leave and join back the company on tuesdays. This make them feel relaxed and be in a position to work with fresh minds.

What do you say?

From spark to fire

I am not perfect. I mean to say that I am not able to do things right in the first attempt. I am 100% sure that no one else can. I have seen many people who have really faced a lot of problems because of others. Those type of people always abuse the damager ( the person who has ruined his/her life). They feel that the damager has completely ruined his/her life and they have nothing left to live happily in the future.

I am totally against the view of those people. I feel that the damagers are the one who ruin a part of your life and later give you reason to go ahead. I am not saying that they are innocent. They spark up your life so that in future if you face any such situation you can create fire. Instead of taking it as the end of your life, you should take it as a learning so that you may not repeat same kind of mistakes in the future. Learn to live with true meaning and purpose now.

Damagers will damage once or to maximum twice,
then it is you who should learn to fight.

Out of track!!!

Have you ever asked a hardcore science question to an art student? If no, then it makes sense. In life, we do these kind of things very often and end up regretting because of reasons like wrong choice, time wastage, etc.

When you are on your track,
Never ask anyone who is out of track

Oops!!! I failed again...

I failed so many times in doing different things as I am not different from other people. One of the most common excuse which I always presented for those failures is the difficulty level of the things which I tried to achieve. But slowly I started learning from my mistakes, which I committed in achieving my targets.

I am sure that many of us do present many excuses for their failures, and to some extent we are right because we really don't want to public our failures. But just think for a while - "Who is a real fool?". Even people around you know very well that you are just presenting a best possible excuse. You are making yourself happy, but at the same time spreading distrust in the society.

There can be only two reasons for your failures -
1. You were not having sufficient time in real sense to achieve the target.
2. You really, really, really don't wanted to achieve that target.


So, next time when you get any failure, try to find out your real category. And please never ever get discouraged, and try to learn from your mistakes.

Reasons to Brag...

Why do people brag? This always remained a question to me, but today as we are done with IR exam, I got some time to think about it. The top 10 reasons, according to me, can be -

1. People lack self-confidence, and brag to make themselves feel better.

2. They really don't want others to know the reality.

3. They get attention, and a place somewhere.

4. They really can't help it, and seriously love it.

5. They have nothing else to do.

6. A kind of inferiority complex.

7. They want to imitate the ones they meet.

8. They are very good at it, so want to be perfectionist.

9. A genetic disorder.

10. Combination of all these.

I really don't know the other possible reasons behind bragging. Hope you will help me in this.