Thursday, November 26, 2009

Angry Decision



We all make decisions in our day to day life. Some are right, some are wrong, some are fruitful, some takes a lot. Generally, when we make any decision we consider many factors which can affect our decision. There are some cases when we have no control on the things which we do. One of these types of situations is Anger.

Many a times we make decision when we are angry. This anger has a great impact on our decision making ability. Most of the decision in anger are very harmful. It is better to decide with a cool mind to decide the right thing.

Angry decisions will make you more angry.

I quit FRENCH



I was learning French, but few days back I just stepped back because I was not satisfied with the way I was learning it. I started it with great enthusiasm but later everything vanished. I cannot blame anyone for this.

It happens to many of us that we start something with great enthusiasm and later we just quit. In these situations, there is one great thing to do, i.e. ask yourself the reason for your start. Just ask why you started the thing which you are quitting now. There are some cases where you just cannot resist yourself quitting as you are sure of what you are doing. But there are cases when we just get carried away by others and just quit.

Just ask yourself why you have started, and you will get to know whether quitting is important for you or not.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Power of Appreciation



We all know the importance of appreciating a person. An appreciation can get many things out of a person, or the absence of it may take many things out of him. Always try to appreciate and thank people around you. This will not cost you anything. The person will feel like a worth and his work will be more fruitful than the previous one.

Do all this without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.

Try it!!!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Corupt India



India is still perceived to be one of the most corrupt countries by Transparency International in its annual corruption perceptions. The country ranks 84th in the list of 'World's most corrupt nations' due to high public-sector corruption.

The bottom five nations were Somalia, Afghanistan, Myanmar, Sudan and Iraq, while the cleanest countries with ranking close to perfect 10 were New Zealand, Denmark and Singapore.

So which are the developed countries, which are developing countries and which are under developed? Everybody can give a speech, but only few can listen properly. The report blames everything to Indian PSUs, but I think that Private companies are not absent here. The only thing is they are not caught. These reports can do a little, but together we all can do a lot.

Think about it!!!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Problems help us!!!



Many of us believe that we learn after facing different problems. In most common terms we call it "LEARN BY EXPERIENCE". I agree with this that there are some situations which really teach us some or the other thing.

I strongly believe in something else. The problems and situations we face not actually teach us something. These problems make us find a solution for the same. We use ourself going deeper inside, and just come up with the solution. Here the problem has not taught us how to solve a problem, but the problem has helped us in knowing ourself. It makes us know our hidden talents.

So, the next time you decide to know your true self, put yourself in a problem.

Fear or Guts?


Fear and guts are not given by anyone. These are the things which we have to take. One who take it as his choice can have it, others cannot if they don't want to. The one who prefers guts over fear will surely have guts.

You decide your own choice

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Controllable Anger



" If anger is your most frequently used outlet, try unplugging it for a while." (Brian G. Jett)

It is very true because many a times we lose something just because of our Anger factor. Anger, often taken as one of the enemies of human, is created by us. By this, I mean to say that it is only we who create anger, as it is not inborn. Controlling the anger totally depends on an individual. If not controlled at the right time, this can become very intense and can even break you.

Control your anger before it start controlling you.