A change by one

"They say that one person can never change anything,
I say that one can change everything"

We always blame the system and always say that we need some people to change the system. The story always end before it starts because we always look for the people who can come forward. We are ready to go but we need someone to be with us. This wait for others always result into NO SINGLE STEP.

I feel that if one really have strong determination to change anything we can do it no matter how many people support us. It is always like power of multiplication rule where one person can convince another one, and the chain goes on. Just think for a while about 10 individuals taking initiative at different places. The chain will be totally different and will grow rapidly because one or the other day someone has to do it, so why can't we now?

EACH ONE TAKE ONE.

Never ever give up!!!

We all have some or the other goals and we always try to achieve those goals. There are many people who always try to put others down before they actually raise themselves. This brings an extra difficulty to those who are working in their direction. Because of those people, sometimes we face a lot of problems and feel that we are lagging behind.

Sometimes these problems or lagging behind is taken as if it is the end of the story and we stop making further efforts. But if we will look at the reality, it says that lagging behind has nothing to do with your goal attainment. What matters a lot is the ability to keep your spirit high and never get effected by anyone.

We all know that people will try to knock us out, and believe me this is a hard fact. One who is your dear now may be the one who can shoot you. We should always some have back up. These back ups will help us stand tall even when the wind is at its maximum speed.

THINK ABOUT IT, AND NEVER GIVE UP!!!

The real day : TODAY

"TODAY is the only truth"

Many of us give more importance to our past and future actions than the present one. This is one of the common mistake we always make. It is a truth that our present is the only way by which we can achieve all that we want to achieve. Without wasting time to think about the past and day dream about the future, we all should live our present and should act for TODAY.

Learn to smile

I have seen many people (including me) who just get upset whenever they face any difficulty in anything. Life is all about stuggle and it is not written in our destiny that our bad face will help us get rid of those difficulties.

We always make bad faces to show others that we are having some problem, and that is completely ruining us. This ultimately creates many other problems including bitter relations wth others. I have realized this, and have started working on the same. Making bad faces will not gonna make any improvement in our life, but instead of that it may create some extra problems.

We will loose nothing if we will smile at every problem. I know this is not at all easy but we can start by smiling at minor problems.

TRY AND LEARN..

HAPPY DEEPAWALI

DEEPAWALI is an Indian festival, which is celebrated every year with great joy and excitement. Everyone wears new clothes, eat sweets, burn crackers, and have great fun on this auspicious day.

There are approximately 13% Indians who are not even able to enjoy this festival. All they can do is to wtch others celebrating, or stay quite at alone place. This post is deicated to those heroes, who really are great. They have nothing still they live every minute of their life with no complaints to anyone.

HAPPY DEEPAWALI to all of you, and especially those heroes.

Knock before you enter

What did you do last time when you have been to someone's home? Rang the bell, or Knocked the door. Right? This is what we do because we really need to take permission before we enter.

Many of us knock at the door and remain outside. Even if nobody is replying to the knock, we just be there. Knocking and entering are entirely different actions. this what happens to our real life. Knocking can be the things which we often do, and knocking is really necessary. It consists of reading books, attending meetings, asking questions.

Entrance can be the the extra things which are very important to succeed in the life. Entrance requires much bolder action. It requires one to enter into himself, to uncover hidden motives, to see contradictions, and to realize his actual power for self-change.

Many of us just keep on knocking at the door, but do not dare to enter. This keeps us always at the same place where we are today.

KNOCK AND ENTER, DON'T STEP BACK OR KEEP ON KNOCKING...
AND NEVER EVER FORGET TO KNOCK BEFORE YOU ENTER.

Less important

I have not posted anything from the past 3 days. As far as I can remember, it happened after approximately one month. I am not here to present an excuse for not posting anything.

I was just thinking today to find the reason behind this. My schedule in these days was bit busy. I had many work to do. What I have done here is this that I got involved in that work giving less important to my blog. I was not able to find out the exact reason. this happens when we have some work which we take more important than our current work.

It is not so that my blog is unimportant for me, but the work which I had seemed more important. I understood this, and now will try to take care of this throughout my life, and suggest you to do the same.

Food everywhere, but nothing to eat!!!

Do we know the value of food? I think, "NO". We all have more than sufficient to eat. But there are many people, who have nothing to eat; forget about eating they just don't get any food to see. We all know are very much interested in knowing the facts and figures on Poverty, but very few are really interested in taking these numbers down.

Every country is into making records, records of being largest producers of grains and other crops. According to foodnavigator.com , the total production for Wheat in the year 2008-08 is 683 million tons. Out of this, very few quantity reaches the poor.

The total number of poor in 2008-08 is 380 million. These poor people have less to eat. I really cannot understand that if every country is producing enough to take care of its residents, then why are people not getting that produced food? I know that I am lacking more facts and figures to say all this, but friends just give it a thought.

IMS Approach

IMS = Its My Style

It is very common that a person asks another person to do a work. It does not matter how important that work is. It can be good for us, or cannot be. Lets call these works as ASSIGNMENT.

We all have been given lots of assignments to do, and believe me we all are capable enough to do those assignments. We do whatever we are asked to do. Yes, we only do whatever we are asked to do. This is very common in organizations, where the employees are given some or the other work very often. They do what they have to do. They don't have any freedom.

We have another term called COMMITMENT. A committed employee always do more than what he is asked to do. The employees are more hungry for freedom and recognition. If the employee is being given assignments with a power to do what he want, then definitely the result will be much much better.

"JUST ASK A PERSON TO DO SOMETHING, NEXT TIME HE WON't WORK FOR YOU"

Unchanged Goals

It is a very hard fact that almost 60% of us are not having any goal in our life yet. It doesn't mean that those who are not having any goal are fools and have no right to live happily. Another important fact is this that almost half of those who have goals, change their goals very frequently as if they are changing clothes.

Some of the reasons for frequently changing our goals are-

1. Some other person is having better goal.

2. Realizing that their goals are not realistic.

3. Over-estimating self (of the ability).

4. Under-estimating the goal.

5. External pressure to change it.

6. Circumstances

There can be many other reasons for this. Goals are highly influenced by the incidents. There are some incidents in our life which change our life, and help us know our true self. These incidents become milestones in our life, and we start working in that direction. These incidents are so intense that they force us to make realistic and achievable goals. These Goals are considered real goals with no further frequent change.

I forgot everything

"I always forget whatever I learn", this is a problem with many of us. We always think that we have got some problem with our memory. We think that we are not able to use our brain to the fullest. but once we read something, our capacity to understand things related to that increases. This is because of our brain.

Brain, one of the finest creation of GOD, is the head of our body. Brain is having the properties of a non-elastic thing. Non-elastic means the things which don't return to their original state. We learn, and as a result of that our brain expands.

After a period, we feel that we have lost whatever we have learnt. But this is not true, the real fact is this that we always have that information in our mind, but the regular updates of information keep the old information in some corner of our brain, and when we try to learn something related to that old information, we realize that that we know a lot about it.

"NEVER THINK THAT YOU HAVE LOST EVERYTHING, YOU ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING NEW"

Flowing accordingly

We all know the importance of INFORMATION, right? Information, often linked to communication, should always be perfect, perfect in respect of its flow between the people involved. It has different importance for different people.

The same information is needed to be communicated differently in different situations. The information, which when written 100% in the exam paper, can fetch "A" grade for us. But when we communicate the same 100% information to the employees, it shows reverse results. For better results, we should be able to communicate the 10% information in such a way so that they may understand the 100%.

We all should be able to analyse the situation before actually communicating any information, so that the results are more than our expectations.

FASTER the BETTER

I always take life as Relay race. It is not because of the reason that we have our successor to take ahead whatever we leave for them. I am talking about the achievement of our goals.

All of us have different capabilities, and we all perform using those. Some of us achieve goals earlier than the others. It is not because that they are more capable than others. As I wrote earlier, we all have different capabilities, and the speed of goal achievement is a result of that.

It is just like Relay race. We all start from a common point. Some of us reach the first person faster, whereas others reach comparatively slower. This is not final. There are so many things after that. So, it does not matter who achieves the goal faster, but the thing matters the most is who reach the final stage.

I have no IDEA

An idea can change your life, but where is that idea? We all know the importance of an idea, but we don't get any. An idea requires a lot of hard work, concentration and dedication. And that too in the right direction. Idea can be of anything, it does matter what kind you generate.

Many a times we feel that the idea we have in mind, is nothing but a bullshit, and will not gonna make change in my life or others. In reality, there were many ideas which were being rejected by a person but accepted by others as a great ideas.

Ideas are just like Rabbit. It is very hard to get first two, and then handle them. But once you get an idea of the idea, it keeps on coming.

"TAKE CARE OF YOUR IDEAS, DON'T LET ANYONE STEAL" IT