Oops!!! I failed again...

I failed so many times in doing different things as I am not different from other people. One of the most common excuse which I always presented for those failures is the difficulty level of the things which I tried to achieve. But slowly I started learning from my mistakes, which I committed in achieving my targets.

I am sure that many of us do present many excuses for their failures, and to some extent we are right because we really don't want to public our failures. But just think for a while - "Who is a real fool?". Even people around you know very well that you are just presenting a best possible excuse. You are making yourself happy, but at the same time spreading distrust in the society.

There can be only two reasons for your failures -
1. You were not having sufficient time in real sense to achieve the target.
2. You really, really, really don't wanted to achieve that target.


So, next time when you get any failure, try to find out your real category. And please never ever get discouraged, and try to learn from your mistakes.

LAND 2 PEOPLE

What are you specialized in? Economics, Marketing, Finance, HR, Astrology, or others? No matter what you are doing, but one thing which will always be helping you is other humans. How? There is not even a single work which cannot be done by human.

Well, I know very well that you all know the importance of human very well, and believe me I have nothing new to add to that. But there was a time when people didn’t know about the real importance of human and the work he is capable of doing. The Babylonian dynasty, the Qin dynasty, and the Ottoman dynasty were having a very clear thing in their mind i.e., to acquire as much land as they can by defeating the opposition. There was nothing bad in that. They really wanted to increase the acquired land so as to increase their power by killing all the residents of that new land.

We also had some dynasties like the Rothschild dynasty, the China Xia dynasty, and the Slave dynasty of India who really transformed the whole picture. I really agree that these people had also killed a lot of people along with acquiring the land. Nothing new in that, but they realized the importance of humans, and it was only because of this reason that they started the Slavery system, which was mainly for getting their works done. This saved their people to do the work, and at the same time work with no cost.

There was a shift from land to people. Everything lies within humans, not in the outside things. It all depends on how you get it done. Now, people are your power, not the other assets. Understand the importance of a human, and see the magic.

Do you know the real problem?

" The enormity of your problems is nothing compared with your ability to solve them. By overestimating the problems, you underestimate yourself." (Apoorve Dubey)



We all have problems, whether it be of family, or of academics, or of personal life, or of any other thing. We all know how to face the problems, some of us do it by getting involved in it, and some by just trying to find the solution.

Facing a problem has nothing to do with our ability to solve it. Only few of us are capable enough to handle and solve the problem. As rightly said by Mr. Apoorve Dubey by using the above quote, many of us really don't know what really the problem is, and we just react to what we see or face. I feel that problems are just the matter of what we feel, and it is only because of this reason that the thing which is a problem to me may not be a problem for you.

Problems also depends on the way we take it. Many of us overestimate the problem, and by that we just put ourselves in a deep pit. By overestimating the problem, we just make it more stronger and give it a full freedom to eat us up. So, please don't underestimate yourself by overestimating the problems.

I really appreciate Apoorve Dubey, and will appeal all of you not to overestimate your problems.

USE YOUR SENSES TO IDENTIFY THE REAL PROBLEM WITH ITS RIGHT INTENSITY.

Forcing to take care...

We all love to talk, specially on our beloved mobiles. If we feel bored, alone or angry, the first thing which comes to our mind is calling our near and dear ones. I have came across many people who just can't stop themselves talking on their phone, no matter it is important or not. And I really feel pity of those whom they call. Those poor fellows have no option. But few us know very well how to take care of those.

Thanks to Tata Docomo for the pay per minute calling and messaging. Now those people have to think before calling or SMSing anyone. Why? They have to much to talk (generally rubbish), now they will take care of their words as a extra word or a second can charge them something extra. Earlier the charge was on per minute basis, and if their time pass the minute they used to talk for the next full minute till it reached the 50 seconds series. But now we are little bit safe.

Thanks DOCOMO...

Reasons to Brag...

Why do people brag? This always remained a question to me, but today as we are done with IR exam, I got some time to think about it. The top 10 reasons, according to me, can be -

1. People lack self-confidence, and brag to make themselves feel better.

2. They really don't want others to know the reality.

3. They get attention, and a place somewhere.

4. They really can't help it, and seriously love it.

5. They have nothing else to do.

6. A kind of inferiority complex.

7. They want to imitate the ones they meet.

8. They are very good at it, so want to be perfectionist.

9. A genetic disorder.

10. Combination of all these.

I really don't know the other possible reasons behind bragging. Hope you will help me in this.

Ashamed of shameless...

First of all I am really very sorry to write this post in this blog as it is not related to the title. The post is related to INDIA ( My Country), so it has an automatic place. Again sorry.

INDIANS....I strongly agree that many of us have made a big mark on this globe, and I really respect them. There are very famous personalities who have made their journey remarkable, and there are many who are doing and not having any name (just for their country). A salute to our DEFENSE FORCE.

Many of us are having a habit. A habit of doing those things which are asked not to do. And I really don't think that you all need a list of it. Lets see most common thing.

Dekho gadha pishaab kar raha hai


Yes. Pi at a place where one should not. But, most of us really do. Are these shameless Indians? I think no. These are only habitual. I really want to now the reason behind this habit of repeating the things again and again even if they are asked not to do.


I really respect INDIA and everything which is related to my nation. Just have a look at the following pictures.

Lalu ji and his better half during national anthem

Self proclaimed "GOD" Mataji Nirmala Devi


Now, I have nothing to say about these pictures. I really respect these Indians, but my respect is more towards my nation. When the same thing was being done by Mandira Beddy, and M.F. Hussain, they were seriously punished. But, what about them?

I really can't see the insult of our national FLAG. Can you?

Thoughtful thought 1

What a word? THOUGHT. There is one thing which is common in all of us, i.e., our thoughts (we all think). Thoughts have no dimensions. They are simple, they are complex, they are instant, they are lazy, they are worth, they are useless, they are real, they are imaginary, they are personal, they are professional, and they are common. But, one thing which is a fact here is this that they all are automatic.

Just think about it. How many times you were being able to have a control over your thoughts?

I will be looking forward for your responses.