Why do I lose always?

They say - "The chances of winning is always less"

I say - "It's Win or Lose. So the chances are 50-50, always"

They say - "Success follows hard work"

I say - "Why the hell God gave us BRAIN!"

They say - "Only I lose always"

I say - "By making this comparative illogical statement, you can now decide how dumb you are"

We all want to succeed in whatever we do, and why not! I start everything with the success in my mind. Honestly speaking, I have got success in only few things I have done, and I am not sad about it. Be it win, be it lose, it is always mine.

Winning or losing is again comparative words. What is Win for me, can be Lose for you. For example, if I wanted to clear my college with grade B+, but for you B+ is a curse. So, it is always you who decides whether you have got success or not. If you have worked for something, you succeeded to do it. If you have not worked on something, you have lost it.

I will finish this post by saying, "You will lose if you will not fight"

Fight for every bloody right of yours, or for anything you want to do.

I Dream, I Do, I Fail, and I Quit

This is something which is common between many of us. There are many situations when I realized that I do not have it in me to work for the thing I want to achieve. That is where I always quit. 

Even after knowing that it is ME who is stepping back here, I somehow convinced my inner self that I would try to do something better than this. That "something better" always replaced another "something better", and I got nothing. That is my story, that might be yours too.

I wanted to learn something out of those failures, so I tried to find out the reason behind me quitting things. Lets take it this way. When you want to push a car, you require an initial boost which has to be good enough to make the car move. But once the car starts moving, all you need is the equal force which will be lesser than what you used earlier.

Coming back to the implications on Life, your dreams are something which you want to achieve. The initial boost required to work on your dreams will be proper homework, planning, self-motivation and support. The initial boost decides your success or failure.

Work real hard and serious till you make your first move. And once you will be make your first move, your previous moves will help you motivating yourself for further moves.

Feel Proud of yourself!

Spending last two days in not-so-normal mood, I was continuously thinking of the reason behind it. I had a fight? No. I lost something? No. Anything else unusual? A big NO. I am 100% sure that I am not the only who felt like this, or Am I?

After getting back to normal, I started thinking about something which I am proud of. Why? I wanted to know if there is anything I am happy for. I wanted to know something I think I have done very well. I wanted to know which makes me feel little different from others.

When I say PROUD, I do not mean the dominant feeling of putting yourself over others. I just mean the inner sense of feeling your worth, your importance. Think about any moment, any work, any instance, which you are proud of. It can be you having good muscles, you donating to the poor and needy, you helping others, or anything else. 

It will not be wrong to say that when we feel proud of ourselves, our body language changes completely. The straight head starts looking in the sky, the nervous eyes becomes alert, the bent shoulder gets filled with air, and we start moving as if we rule the world. Isn't it? Whatever you do in that feeling is your best.  

There are many of us who think they are good for nothing, or they get disappointed so early. This post is dedicated to all those friends. You see things when you want to see. You may not notice Red color around you unless you try to. And when you try to notice Red color, you find it even if it is not rarely visible.

What are you proud of?

New Rupee Symbol Installation

India has come up with a new symbol for its currency. Here is what economic times published---

"No words can explain my feeling....It is a great honour for me to be part of the Indian history," said a jubilant D Udaya Kumar who gave the Indian rupee its unique symbol.

The 31-year-old IIT-B post graduate in industrial design also feels that his use of Devanagri script helped him clinch the coveted honours.

"Indianising the symbol was very important. I had to be simple and acceptable nationally and internationally. It had to reflect our culture and ethos," Kumar, who would be joining IIT (Guwahati) as Assistant Professor tomorrow, said.

"My design is based on the tricolour, with two lines at the top and white space in between. I want our flag to fly high," Kumar said with a broad smile.


How can you download this new symbol on your computers and laptops?

Click Rupee_Foradian.ttf

How to use it?

Use the grave acent symbol - ` (the key just above "tab" button in your keyboard) with the new Rupee symbol. Just select "Rupee Foradian" font from the drop down list of your fonts in your application and press the key just above your tab button. It will display our new rupee symbol.

Busy-Bees

There was a time when things like money, power, and show-offs used to decide your status. As time keeps on changing, so do this equation.

People have started adding a new component – being BUSY. I am not going to talk about the real hard working busy people who have forgotten everything being busy. I am talking about the pretending BUSY-bees. When these bees find that the people around them are really doing great and are always busy, they start taking them as busy. Though they have lot of time and are doing nothing, but they convey to everyone that they are busy.

Professionalism, but not Actually

The word, Professionalism, sounds really very catchy to me. I always thought of being a professional, not in terms of the profession I am in, but I wanted to be professional in terms of the commitment, time, work, understanding and feelings.

There are some persons who love to call themselves "A Professional", but I do not understand "why?". If they think what they are doing is right, the same thing becomes wrong for them when they find others doing the same. If they cannot take care of the time, they expect others to be on time. If they think that they are making sense, why others always sound non-sense to them. Why? Why? Why?

This is what I think always about being "A Professional". If this is Professionalism, then I think that I would love to be "Exactly OPPOSITE to this".

Who is Professional?

Being Creative is Creativity in itself

Creativity makes the impossible a possibility, it has been said. It's no exaggeration to say that nothing is impossible. Why did God create that if it's useless to human beings. Why was it invented then? Everything has a purpose in our lives. We, people, should know how to use all things and make them useful.

So, being creative is one of the main points of it. It always knocks in our lives every now and then. If you deny creation's invitation, it also means you deny the whole expression of being human. Teaching creativity to oneself is a constant invitation. Teaching creativity to ourselves is necessary. Whenever it appears in front of you, grab it and make it as your own uniqueness. Teaching creativity to yourself is a kind of talent that nobody can steal. Care for it and merit it. It doesn't pick favorites. It gives an unconditional view and the constant invitation to play...to everybody.

Thanks to Amy Twain who is continuously working to help us in self-coaching.

The Art of PERSUASION

Have you ever tried to persuade anyone? People say that the art of persuasion is very difficult to master, and I strongly agree with them.

I feel that persuading anyone is directly related to our ears. How? People never care for your words and knowledge until they know how much you care for them. Just take yourself to a discussion between 5 humans. One is speaking and you are busy in your own world. Now it is your turn to speak and that person will make sure that he convert your speech to a simple bark which nobody cares about.

We need to listen to understand, not just wait for our turn to speak. We need to show our true feelings to what others are speaking about, no matter how rubbish they are. Listening, this way, is a must for Persuasion. And listening, of course, need ears.

I am the only one with pain

Cry, always cry. There is nothing left in your life. Those who want to cry just because they are getting pains in their life always lag behind. They waste their time crying. I am neither spreading a message for not crying, nor saying that those who cry are all empty bags.

There is no point shouting how much pains you have. There are people who are continuously getting pains but still they are not shouting, instead of that they are fighting. The poorest country in the western Hemisphere, Haiti, is one such example. They were facing poverty and suddenly met the earthquake of 7.0 intensity. Are they just shouting?

Remember that the ones who can fight, can really exist here. Do not just cry, fight too.

You really a new AVATAR now

Have you ever been cheated or ditched? I am sure of a big "YES". Today people are more into looking into what others are doing. They first check that, and then plan to the best to mess everything. You know about the back-bitters and you are doing anything.

Ooo...I see! I guess you cannot hurt anyone, right? Just go and take a new AVATAR as these people really want to see a real YOU. They know that you are an EMOTIONAL FOOL, and they don't mind bitting you. You have your AVATAR hidden somewhere. Try to look for it inside you. You just have to play HIDE 'N' SEEK, seek your AVATAR and show it to the real BASTARDS.

Show them that even you exist in this WORLD.

9 ways to Anger Management

Who does not get angry? Well, anger is everywhere. Some people just hide it whereas some show it to the masses. The best thing here is to control the anger. If you really want to get rid of anger, then you are at right place. Here are 7 different ways which will help you control your anger.

1. Slowly drink some glasses of cold water. Do not replace it with anything else.

2. Go for a pillow fight with wall. Through the pillow as hard as you can on the wall.

3. Eat if you are little angry.

4. Do not drink any alcoholic substance as it will warm up your body.

5. Just go away from the place, person or thing, which is making you feel angry.

6. Meditation and exercises.

7. Laughter Therapy.

8. Compromise or forgiveness.

9. Build understanding.

4 ways to cure your Headache

Headache is one of the most common problems faced by all of us. I know this is not a right place to put this post here. The reason I am putting it here is to help you all to work effectively without any problem. Here are four best ways to get instant relief from Headache.

1. Eyes Area Massage - Close your eyes. Place your middle fingers to your eyes that are above cheekbones. Massage that area gently but firmly in circular motion for 1 minute.

2. Eyes to Nose Massage – Using thumb, go along the underside of eyebrows (along the bone on top of eye socket). Feel where this bone meets the bridge of your nose and eyes and find a point where there is a small indentation. Very gentle pressure, press your thumbs into the points. You can do it four times by holding and press that area for 10 seconds in each press.

3. Neck Massage - Massage a point where you can feel it by moving the middle fingers of your hands to the back of your head and feel the base of your skull. Specially, at the tops of your neck that meets the base of your skull. Massage for a minutes using finger tips gentle in circular movement.

4. Scalp Massage – Let your palms of your hands massage your scalp on the top of your skull for a minute gently.

Hope it will help you.

Wait, and you will wait forever

When you want to do something, just go for it. There are people who just wait for others to support them. Most of the time, this wait always be a wait and people end up waiting and doing nothing. There are people who just don't care about anyone when they have some important thing to do.

Similar example is shown by residents of Tajnagar village near Gurgaon. They waited for 25 long years for the government to build the railway station in their village, but they got nothing. They started operations by their own and invested Rs.2,100,000. The station started its operations on 5 January,2010.

This definitely gives us a moral. A moral that people who wait will always wait, and people who want to do will do it in any condition.

5 best excuses for reaching late to the office

People have excuses for every situation. Some are just slow thinkers while some are god's grace. Here are top 5 excuses made by the employees who reach late to the office.

1. They were having made time with the stomach, or head.

2. There was a huge traffic jam in your vicinity, which made you stuck there.

3. When they were coming, they found their shoes heels broken, or clothes got dirty; so they went home and changed it.

4. There was some big event at home, and they were busy attending close guests.

5. They were in office only, but were not able to swipe their card.

There are many more excuses which employees can come up with, but these are top 5 according to me. Waiting for more excuses from you.

10 reasons to lay you off

There can be any reason for you being laid off from your company. Here are the top reasons for you being laid-off from your company.

1. People who are having attitude problems can face a lay off.

2. Their habit of not coming on time to the office on regular basis.

3. People keep their desk very dirty which may also result a lay off.

4. Habits of disturbing or interrupting others by any foolish act or talk.

5. Inability on concentrate on work.

6. Asking too many personal questions, or trying to master others' life.

7. Some people tend to do more or less than expected. This more or less is always unwanted.

8. People take office as a place for free facility service center.

9. Always cursing the company everywhere.

10. The company is a job searching agent and matrimonial agent for them.

These kind of people are not only threat for the colleagues but also for the company they are working with. Better lay them off asap.

Clothes will save ELECTRICITY now

I was just going through some articles and came across one interesting articles. According to this articles, there are some Mumbai people who came together to form a "No-Tie" Campaign. They says that wearing tie makes the person feel warm and it is because of this that many companies are using Air Conditioners. By saying NO to the ties, they will be able to save the electricity consumption.

A person said that wearing tie is more of British culture where the highest temperature in Summer is much lesser than our lowest temperature in winters. They says that people in India should wear clothes according to the culture and place.

I really don't know how far they are right. But according to me, more than 75% of the tie wearing people just take it of when they are not in contact with their seniors and the customers. Many wear it just because they love it. I am waiting for your responses.

Being Proactive does not take much!!!

I have seen many people who are just lazy, even I act like a lazy sometimes. The reason behind that is just that they cannot help it. Here are some approaches which may help you being proactive.

1. Don't try to be perfectionist and don't leave everything just because you cannot be perfect in that.

2. You have to take risk always. Don't leave anything just because you may do mistake. Go for it.

3. Increase your expectations. Do not stick to what your are today.

4. Whatever you want to do, do it now.

There can be many other approaches for being proactive, but these four are really very helpful. Try it!

Problems may define you!

We are the ones who are there to face the problems and solve them, don't let your problems tackle you. This is what most of us do. Some people are so bound to their problems that they don't know what to do without them, and if one lot of problems disappears, they get new ones to replace them. The biggest lose here is this that problems start defining us.

We are nothing without those problems in that case. Don't let you problems decide your individuality. If your identity is linked to your problems then you will never be able to overcome them.

I walk alone

We all have friends. But there are many people who feel isoloted even after having hundreds of friends. There can be mistake of anyone behind this and lets not get into it. Lets talk about their loneliness. If you are dealing with loneliness, you can take some steps to change the way you feel. Remember, only you have the power to overcome this feeling.

The first thing that you need to do is accept that you are feeling lonely. Do not try to run away from your feelings. Instead face and learn to express that feeling. You can cry to vent out your loneliness, or you can write. Usually when you accept and express what you are feeling, you will be able to figure out what is causing it.

Happiness to me!

What is happiness to you?

Happiness is not something which is universal. What keeping me happy may not keep you happy. There are many people who keep on saying that happiness and themselves have no connection, and happiness is always away from them. On the same side, we have people who are always happy.

What is the reason? I feel that happiness is always there in each and everything we do. It is when you search and live in the searched thing. It does not matter what you are doing, what really matters is the way you are doing it. Keep yourself involved in the things and think that it will bring happiness to you.

Work with full enjoyment, and you will get your happiness.