Decide your Happiness Level

We all dream, but only few of us really meet their dreams. All we want in life is SUCCESS, and why not. We have got lot of working hard ability in us. We have got so much potential in us.

The first thing we do for getting success is dream. By dream, I do not want to differentiate between the realistic and the unrealistic dream as that we will be taking later in our blog as a separate post.

We set our targets, our goals; and start working towards them. As every one of us is different, so are our targets and goals. A poor farmer might set his target to have enough money and food to take care of his family and their wishes. A small businessman may want to turn himself into Business Tycoon. An entry level working professional may want to become the CEO of a company. That is how it is, and that is how it is going to be.

But do we really take the word “Success” as same? Let us define the targets and goals which we want to achieve as Happiness Level. So we all have different Happiness Levels. When we attain that Happiness Level, we call it the achievement of the success. But there can rarely be only one Happiness Level in one life. As soon as we achieve the existing Happiness Level, the current level gets shifted to the next Happiness Level. There are those who have one Happiness Level, and even after achieving only that level in their life they continue to be happy. Not forgetting the third category, there are those who do not achieve their Happiness Levels; reason may be anything.

Life is all about being happy. Success can never be pre-defined. Some are happy after having everything, some are happy after having something, and some are happy even after having nothing. Decide your Happiness Level, and work to achieve it.

Happiness to me!

What is happiness to you?

Happiness is not something which is universal. What keeping me happy may not keep you happy. There are many people who keep on saying that happiness and themselves have no connection, and happiness is always away from them. On the same side, we have people who are always happy.

What is the reason? I feel that happiness is always there in each and everything we do. It is when you search and live in the searched thing. It does not matter what you are doing, what really matters is the way you are doing it. Keep yourself involved in the things and think that it will bring happiness to you.

Work with full enjoyment, and you will get your happiness.

I forgot my birthday...oops!!!

When I just got into my BBA, it was 2nd August, 2005. Like everyone even I was very much excited after getting into college-life. I was busy making friends and getting familiar with Indore. My birth date is 6 August. I was so busy in these things that I forgot my B-day. I was not carrying any mobile, and used to live as a PG (no chance of getting a call in the night). I got up at 8 (like a normal day), took bath, and went to college. As I was new, nobody knew my birthday.

I reached my room, and my owner told me that so many people called for me. I did not know about all those persons and the reason to call. After sometime I had one more call for me, I received it, and guess what? The day was my birthday, and the call was of my parents. I was so shocked, and was questioning myself that how can anyone forget his birthday. And after that, my day was full of happiness.

I will tell you what happens actually. I felt good because I was not having any expectation with anyone. I totally forgot my birthday, and was wished later. This is the same thing which comes in our life very often. We have so many expectations with the person around us, that we completely make our feelings dependent on them.


NEVER EVER EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE, OR GET READY TO SUFFER.