Be a self-learner

With every breathe we take, we get an opportunity to learn something whether it be our personal life, office life, social life, or anything else. Learning, according to me, has no relation to the place. It doesn't matter whether you know the place very well or not at all. What really matters is the way we look at it.

Most of us always look for some other person to come to us, and teach us everything so that we can learn. Today, nobody is having time to do good for others (leave the exceptions). How can we except anyone to come to us and then teach us? I am talking about the professionals because they too get something to teach us.

We all should be self-learners, so as to learn more from all the things we see and face.

Pleasing others...

Everyone of us always try to please others so that they can something out of the pleased person. And believe me friends, while pleasing others we forget to please ourself. It is just like feeding others by being hungry.

We all have got one life, and we have very limited time to do all those things we want. We cannot please everyone we meet in this short life, so we should concentrate on pleasing self not others. We should go ahead in life, and if we please someone on the way, it is like a bonus to us.

I am not talking about the profession which really require pleasing others. Hope everyone of us will concentrate on self, not buttering/pleasing others.

SACH KA SAMNA (FACING THE TRUTH)

"SACH KA SAMNA", best stage to confess. It was a DESI version of "MOMENT OF TRUTH". After changing the life of 50 contestants and finishing just 48 episodes it came to an end. Why?

Are people tired of going for the show?, or Are people bored of watching the show, or People have no more confessions to make?, or some ban? I really don't know the reason because the reason it not known to me. I have never expected that the show will reach to an end so soon.

We are from a country where people give far more importance to daily saas-bahu serials, where the main character is showing the different aspect of life. including 4-5 marriages without divorce, rape cases, disgusting fashion, etc. We really like these serials, no matter how cheap they are. Some of these serials have directly effected many of our life in a negatively. Still they are the best.

When the show "SACH KA SAMNA" started, people were excited about it. But slowly it started revealing the truth, and people started publicizing the vulgarity of the how. We never think before doing it, so what it the problem in confessing it. I think that the pressure of keeping all truth in ourself is far more than that of confessing it.

Hope "SACH KA SAMNA" will be back soon to transform our life.

There is nothing in everything...

We all try to do our work to the best of our efficiency. Some of us do it more than targeted, some of us just finish it, and some of us just can't manage doing it. Why? I am not questioning the efficiency. But, there is one thing which matters a lot, i.e. efforts.

Nothing comes just by a single attempt. How can we expect that we will be able to achieve all that we desire by just some efforts? And the people who take shortcut in doing the work reach a situation which we all know. Don't stop putting your efforts. It is all like a ladder.

"We cannot cut a tree by just a single strike of Axe"

Who are you?

Most of us are not good in academics, practically and other things. It doesn't mean that we are useless. I really don't feel that we are like a black spot in this society. I believe that things doesn't end here. What really matters a lot is our ability to deal, deal with the things which are coming to us.

We too can make a lot of difference. We should be open-minded. An open minded individual may have limited knowledge or technical know how but is open to embrace and munch on as much as life has to offer. They tend to learn from life and apply the knowledge to their own life and seem to be very understanding and have a friendly attitude. Very Human!

On the contrary, we have Narrow minded people. People who know a lot of facts tend to brag, be judgmental and oftentimes assume they know everything. They seem to project a feeling of supremacy and the power that goes along with it and cannot stop down to people that are not equally mentally stimulating. They seem almost academic in their thinking.

This is the basic difference between Open and Narrow Minded, but there are people who are really exceptions. A salute to them.

Who are you - Open minded or Narrow minded?

Touch and Go...

All of us start our journey from NOTHING. I am totally in agreement that whatever we achieve is only because of hard work, dedication, zeal, effort, and risk taking ability. There can be many other reasons depending on the individual. It is because of this that some of us reach the top and others just hang around.

I have seen some people who (in my terms) are really having the above mentioned characteristics, and believe me they reached the success in their life. After just touching the success, they came back to the place from where they started their journey. Why?

Well, the answer is simple. These type of people want to reach the top, but can't be there for long because they stop doing all their work once they reach there, feeling that they will be there. But my friends, it is not true. If you have reached the top, you have to keep working so as to be there for long, and reach higher altitudes. it is just like a slope, if you will keep going you will cross it, if not you will come down quickly.

As Gary Anderson rightly said, "Never stop. ESPECIALLY when things are good."

Copying the success

When is the last time you initiated to achieve something? Most of the things which we try to achieve are already being done by some other person. I am not discussing here the question of good or bad here. It takes a lot of time for many of us to know our real self. Many a times it do happens that by looking at the success of a person we realize that even we have to do the same work.

We always think that others are better than us because they have achieved a lot in a very short time. We always live in such worries. We spend too much of time thinking about their lifestyles and success, forgetting that everything starts by working on self. There is nothing in simple copy paste, but if you really want to do what others have already done, do it with variations and accepting all the changes for improvement. When you see others doing something, just try to identify yourself and start doing something rather than taking worries.

"When the grass looks greener on the other side, it's time to fertilize your own lawn."